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Top tips for young people

1. Always set your social networks (Hi5. Facebooks, Bebo) to private.

To do this

  • click on my accounts
  • scroll down to privacy settings
  • click only friends and networks..it is that easy!

2. Never give out personal information such as home address, school, and phone numbers

3. Dont post pictures of yourself that you may be embarrassed by later

4. Posting videos that are rude or offensive can come back to haunt you later if you are trying to get into college or universitywhat you put on the internet stays there!

5. Never send pictures of yourself that can be seen as nasty or inappropriate while using your phone...it can be illegal!

6. Always keep your Bluetooth on OFF

7. Dont send mean or harassing messages while using the internet or your phone...that makes you a cyberbully!

8. Do not give out personal information while gaming...it is the same as on MSN!

9. Remember that illegal downloading can cost you access to the internet...if you get caught, they will shut off your internet access!

10. If you are getting harassed on the internet or with your phone, report the abuse to the phone company or msn programme, they can help!

11. If someone asks you for inappropriate materials of yourself or others, always report them to www.ceop.gov.uk

Why do children and young people need to know about esafety?

It is important that you know about the issues that affect your daily lives.

Esafety is not just about protecting you from people trying to harm you on the internet, whether it is by sexually exploiting you, sexually harming you in person, or by sending you harmful messages.

It is also about helping you understand about the consequences of viewing inappropriate material online, being a bully online, and about downloading and producing online materials illegally.



  • Don't assume anything you send or post is going to remain private.
  • Your messages and images will get passed around, even if you think they won’t: 40% of teens and young adults say they have had a sexually suggestive message (originally meant to be private) shown to them and 20% say they have shared such a message with someone other than the person for whom is was originally meant.
  • There is no changing your mind in cyberspace—anything you send or post will never truly go away.
  • Something that seems fun and flirty and is done on a whim will never really die. Potential employers, college recruiters, teachers, coaches, parents, friends, enemies, strangers and others may all be able to find your past posts, even after you delete them. And it is nearly impossible to control what other people are posting about you. Think about it: Even if you have second thoughts and delete a racy photo, there is no telling who has already copied that photo and posted it elsewhere.
  • Don’t give in to the pressure to do something that makes you uncomfortable, even in cyberspace.


More than 40% of teens and young adults (42% total, 47% of teens, 38% of young adults) say "pressure from guys" is a reason girls and women send and post sexually suggestive messages and images. More than 20% of teens and young adults (22% total, 24% teens, 20% young adults) say "pressure from friends" is a reason guys send and post sexually suggestive messages and images.


Consider the recipient’s reaction.

Just because a message is meant to be fun doesn’t mean the person who gets it will see it that way. Four in ten teen girls who have sent sexually suggestive content did so "as a joke" but many teen boys (29%) agree that girls who send such content are "expected to date or hook up in real life." It’s easier to be more provocative or outgoing online, but whatever you write, post or send does contribute to the real life impression you’re making.

Nothing is truly anonymous.

Nearly one in five young people who send sexually suggestive messages and images, do so to people they only know online (18% total, 15% teens, 19% young adults). It is important to remember that even if someone only knows you by screen name, online profile, phone number or email address, that they can probably find you if they try hard enough.


Social Networks

- No matter how old you are, if you have a social network page, you should have it set to private! Setting privacy settings is easy!

  1. Sign in to the main page
  2. In the tool bar, click on settings
  3. Then click on Privacy
  4. Each section has its own settings
  5. Click Only Friends and Networks for each one and you are done!




- Remember that what you say online is real! When you use MSN remember that being a bully is not ok! Also, remember that you may be talking to someone who is not who they say they are and you need to be safe! Do not give out personal information like your address and phone number or the school you go to.



A Parent's guide to SNAPCHAT, click here to access the guide



- Being a bully online can affect everyone!

If you send nasty, rude, harassing or threatening messages and images to someone, it can affect them in ways you do not know. It can affect how they see themselves, how they talk to people, what they eat, how they think and how they live!

What you say while using the internet or your phone is real and has real consequences!

To help others who have been victims of cyberbullying, become a Cybermentor!

For more information, visit http://www.brentlscb.org.uk/main/www.cybermentors.org.uk

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Things to know about:
Child Exploitation and Online Protection Centre (CEOP)-
for sexually explicit images or videos

  1. to send them an inappropriate video or picture of yourself,
  2. to meet them in person and they are not who they said they were


Also if you have been harmed by someone you met off the internet or if you have seen something you feel needs to be reported about another child or young person. CEOP can help!

There's also a place which anyone can use to report if they feel uncomfortable or worried about someone they are chatting to online. They are called the Child Exploitation & Online Protection Centre 

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You may like to talk to someone at Childline - their freephone number is 0800 1111.


Disrespect NoBody

Get advice and support if you’re worried about any kind of relationship abuse including sexting, relationship abuse, consent, rape and porn.

Click here to go to their website

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Think U Know offers lots of advice for parents and carers on how to protect your child/ren from internet abuse - click on this link to visit their website

Also, see useful information at:



Disrespect NoBody campaign

The second phase of the Home Office Disrespect Nobody campaign will run from 2 February until the end of March 2017.

The aim of the Disrespect NoBody campaign is to prevent young people, both boys and girls aged 12 to 18 years old from becoming perpetrators and victims of abusive relationships.

For 2017 the focus of the campaign will be consent and sexting, which are both issues where many young people need more education and information. The campaign advertising directs young people to the website www.disrespectnobody.co.uk where they can get further information and signposts them to organisations who can provide support.

Please click on the link below to download the partner brief and campaign materials.

Click here to go to their website